other fellow and I

when other fello takes a long time to do something, he is slow.
when I take a long time to do something , I am thorough.
when the other fellow does not do it, he is lazy.
when I do not do it, I am busy.
When the other fellow does it without being told, he is overstepping his bounds.
when I go ahead and do it without being told,that is initiative.
when the other fellow states his opinion strongly, he is bull headed.
when I state my opinion strongly,I am firm.
when the other fellow overlooks a few rules of etiquette, he is rude .
when I skip a few rules of etiquette, I am doing my own thing.

Tom Knight